Monday, April 7, 2008

It's not always about you

For those who know me you know I'm pretty blunt. I would never blog anything that I would not tell you to your face. I do not fear blogging because I tell it how it is. So if you ever see anything on here and you think its about you Ask me ill tell ya. I just won't embarrass you and stick your name on a blog, I do have some tact. So please feel free to share with me email me or call I'm always around.

7 comments:

Amberthyme said...

Your other blog won't allow comments. I was wondering if you would blog what your migranes are like and what the doctors say they are like. Since you (and a few other friends of mine) suffer from migranes it really torks me when people casually throw out "I have a migrane right now" in a brightly lit room and take a couple of advil and go right back to what they are doing. I think many people have the misconseption that migrane= really bad headache.

Amberthyme said...

I don't think I left a bad or hurtful comment earlier. I was the person that told you about the broom thing and my spouse doesn't take a hint when it's time to go. So I passed it on. ::shrug::

Jenny said...

I will have to ask someone how to allow comments Librarian set this account for me and Mom set the other one. LOL I will try to see if i can allow comments. BTW miss ya. OOOH thats right you did tell me about the broom thing.=)

Amberthyme said...

Miss you too : ) I have an idea why the broom thing doesn't work . . . but it's too long and boring to post here.

I thought maybe you set the no comments on purpose so that you don't end up with "cure your migrane with salty slug juice" adds or weird people offering advice (not that there is anything wrong with weird people since I am one of them, but you know what I mean). I like how you don't allow anonymous posters.

Jenny said...

You have to tell me about the broom thing again its been so long but somehow its stuck in my brain.
With all the years of migrains my mother suggested i start blogging and maybe help others.

The Berserker Librarian said...

Saw the new post.. but.. I thought it was all about _me_?

Damn.

See ya Wed!

I'm Shawn said...

Just read all the other connected posts. Damn. Better drama on here than on the soap network!

Who cares about my take on this, but I am going to toss it out there anyway.

When reading an ambiguous post discussing a problem there are always two possibilities. First either you have a good friend that if it was about you, would actually tell you about it so it must not be about you. Second possibility if it is about you then they are not as good of a friend as you thought.

When handling an ambiguous post that discusses a problem there are three options. Option of the first, have faith in your friend that if it was about you they would have told you directly. Option of the second, be a good friend to them and call and ask them if it was about you. Straight up. Good or bad. Option of the third, assume it is about you and just leave a little comment saying "that explains everything" on a blog that they might never see and prove that you are not that good of a friend to them.

I think everyone has a friend who stays too long, or a relative who does not like to leave.

I have a sister who thinks everything is about her. It usually isn't but she causes so much trouble with her self imposed drama that it damages a moments that could have been happier. So I know whereof I speak.